Private · On-device · Free

Tell real connection from red flags.

LoveGrader is a private check for new and mostly online relationships. Answer a few plain questions to see the strength of your connection and any warning signs clearly. Everything stays on your iPhone.

Download on theApp Store Free. iPhone only.
The LoveGrader home screen, where you start a private check on a new or online connection.
A LoveGrader question about sudden emergencies, money trouble, and a steady stream of crises.

Plain questions

Calm questions about the hard parts.

It asks about the patterns worth watching for, like sudden emergencies, money trouble, and a steady stream of crises, in plain language.

A plain question in the LoveGrader check, asking how close the connection feels.

The check

Answer a few honest questions.

Plain, calm questions about the connection. No matching, no profiles, and no way to contact anyone. Just the signals you describe, read back to you.

A LoveGrader result screen showing a clear warning when the signs are strong, with links to the FTC and FBI.

Warning signs

See the warning signs clearly.

When documented warning patterns are strong, the result says so plainly and points you to the FTC and the FBI. It cannot verify anyone or predict the future, and it tells you that.

A LoveGrader result that gives an honest read when the signals are mixed.

An honest read

Clear-eyed when it's mixed.

When the signals are mixed, it says so, with a note about the risk that remains rather than false reassurance.

A LoveGrader result with reassurance when the signs hold up, and a nudge to still verify.

Reassurance

Steady when the signs hold up.

Even with a strong read, it still nudges you to verify independently. It cannot predict the future, and it says so.

A LoveGrader trend chart showing how a connection's signals change across saved check-ins.

Over time

Watch how it changes.

Save a connection and re-check later to see whether the signals settle down or get worse. The history stays on your phone.

A LoveGrader screen explaining that everything stays private and on your phone.

Private by design

Nothing leaves your phone.

Your answers are processed on your iPhone and never uploaded, stored on a server, shared, or sold. There is no account and no analytics.

Pricing

The whole safety check is free.

Free

$0

Everything you need to check a connection.

  • The full questionnaire and your results
  • The romance-scam safety guide and methodology
  • Save your first connection and track it over time
  • App lock, reminders, and the share card

Shown in USD. Your local App Store price may vary.

FAQ

Good questions to ask.

Is LoveGrader free?

Yes. The full safety check, your results, the safety guide, and your first saved connection are free. An optional one-time LoveGrader Plus unlock ($9.99) lets you save more than one connection.

Is my information private?

Yes. Your answers are processed on your iPhone and are never uploaded, stored on a server, shared, or sold. There is no account.

Can it tell me whether I can trust someone?

No. It reflects the warning signs in what you describe and points you to the FTC and the FBI. It cannot verify anyone or predict the future.

What is the check based on?

Documented warning patterns published by the FTC and the FBI, plus published relationship-science ideas for reading the strength of the connection itself.

Which devices does it support?

iPhone, on iOS. It is free on the App Store.

Check a new connection with a clear head.